How to Eat Pussy like an Expert (Champ): A Simple but Pro Guide [March 2019]

That’s one of the biggest lies you can believe in. Yes, there might be certain times when she is already aroused for some reason, but you don’t get those moments too often. There is not a pleasant surprise waiting for you if you just grab her, start rubbing that area and expect her to give you some ecstatic reaction. This just will not happen most of the times, and it is best if you choose not to learn this lesson the hard way. Foreplay is a part and parcel of any intimate activity with your partner, and you are going to read some excellent tips on that later in the guide too.

• Rough Is Always Better

A simple answer to that is, no. Rough is not always better. You might feel like riding an off-terrain jeep at times, but that’s not something you want all the time. As it happens, that’s the same case with sexual sessions as well. Likeness for rough sex and cunnilingus also depends on your partner. Some women are aroused with rough play while others might not like it that much.

• More Pressure Means More Pleasure

That’s another myth that a lot of men live with until they encounter reality. When you talk about an intimate activity between two humans, you can’t really be sure about anything. You are not playing a game of binary numbers here. Applying more pressure is something that you do when less pressure is not working. You will learn later in the guide when you should try to put more pressure on her sensitive region. The right way to eat pussy is to understand the preferences of your partner.

• Just Hit the G-Spot

Some men have this obsession with hitting the G-spot. While it is a great spot to make your girl lose her senses, it does not work without proper foreplay. It is like an electric switch that only works when you have done the wiring beforehand. You can’t just buy a switch from the market and expect it to turn the lights on in your room. The G-spot literally gets activated when you do some foreplay. You can actually feel ridges on this part when a girl is aroused.

• Hand Will Ruin the Fun

When you are doing it orally, is it forbidden to touch her vaginal region with your hands? Some men think it is, but that’s not true. In fact, some of the best techniques of eating pussy include the use of tongue and fingers at the same time.

• Same Technique Will Work for Every Girl

That’s not true at all. The same technique cannot work for every girl. For example, some women like it when you play with their labial region while others don’t feel a thing here at all. Some women like you to go deep with your fingers while others find it painful. Some girls will ask you to go rough while others can’t handle a bite on their thigh. Again, you have to know your partner to lick pussy like flawlessly.

Steps to Licking Pussy Like a Champ

1. Know Her Vagina Well

The first thing that you have to do is to familiarize with a vagina or vulva. The word vagina is thrown around casually, but things have to be specific when you get closer to it. Vagina is actually the inner tubular part of the pussy. The opening, which is referred to as vulva, has many parts that you have to know. Working on the wrong part at the wrong time can ruin the fun for you both. Let’s get to know the important parts.

• Labia Majora

The outer folds of skin around the vagina are called labia majora. The skin is thick here with some weight to it. Most of the women won’t feel any sensation here, but it is the perfect place to take a start before you go all in.

• Labia Minora

This is where things start getting interesting. These are also skin folds but they surround the inner important parts of the pussy. The skin is loose here, but the looseness can vary from woman to woman. Both the labial walls are only protecting the inner sensitive regions in them. When you discuss the types of vagina, this is often an important part that makes one look different from the other.

• Clitoris

This is the top part of her pussy. When I say the top part, it refers to the extreme and farther end of the vagina from the anus. This top end of the vagina might feel like you like a seed when you touch it with your tongue or finger. It is like a nub and this is where you have to do most of the work to give her the orgasms of her life.

• Urethral Hole

This is where the urine comes from. You can ignore this area when performing the licking and eating because this area is not of much importance in making her aroused.

• Vagina

The opposite end of the pussy to the clitoris is a vagina. You can insert your fingers here and that’s vagina is, in fact, an internal tube. A lot of things happen here that you will know later in the guide. Within her vagina, you have three important parts: A-spot, G-spot, and Cervix.

(a) A-Spot: Located deep inside the vagina, it is a part along the upper walls. It is quite close to the cervix. If you consistently hit this spot while performing oral pleasure, you could make her addicted to your licking forever.

(b) G-Spot: This is yet another part of the vagina that can get her into the dreamy state, make her lose her senses, and even squirt when you hit it consistently. It is also along the upper wall of the vagina but not as deep as the A-spot.

(c) Cervix: That’s the innermost part of the vaginal region and it can make or break your cunnilingus session. Make sure you ask your girl how she feels when touching and stimulating this region. Some women love it, others hate it.

2. Prepare Her for It

The most important part of any sexual activity is foreplay. You can’t expect to make your girl happy unless you prepare her for the best moment. Imagine watching a movie where you already know the end. Now, there is no fixed method of arousing her with foreplay. Different men can have different ways to make their women warm and ready for the climax. Let’s divide this section of the activity into three different parts.

• The Initiation

That’s when you initiate your activity. At this point, you give your partner the indication that something is about to come. You kiss her but this kiss is not a casual and short one. This one lasts for a long time and there is some tongue involved in it too. You will have to rub your face on hers and move around gently to make her goosebumps stand up. A gentle bite on her earlobes (with your lips); some passionate kisses on her neck; the warm breathing on the side of her neck; and a lip-locked kiss make up for the perfect start. You have initiated a passionate storm of sensitivity and vibes at this point.

• The Indication

This is where you start moving down. From her neck, you move to her shoulders and the chest area. While kissing her shoulders, you have to move closer and closer to her boobs. Do not lick the nipples just yet. Fondle the boobs in your hands while you work your way all around the globes. If your partner’s nipples are sensitive, make her wait for the best moment. Kiss her ribs and lick her belly. Now move upward slowly while licking and kissing the exact middle of her front. Keep one of her boobs cupped in one hand and put your mouth on the other nipple. Suck the nipples gently while alternating between the two frequently. Make sure you make them as wet as possible.

Dryness in this region can hurt her nipples. While they bite the nipples in porn movies, you don’t want to do that. It can be extremely painful for your partner. If you want to bite, cover your teeth with your lips and then do it. Move closer to her legs now. You have given her an indication of what is about to come.

• The Confirmation

Now that you have come to the lower region of her body, you want to give her the confirmation of what you are about to do to her. She knows at this point that she is about to get eaten out by a wild beast. Some gentle kisses on her pubic region will be perfect. However, you want to tease her vagina with only your breaths at this point. Kiss her thighs and lick them. If she is okay with it, you can even take gentle bites on her thigh. Keep her hands around her butts, open her legs up, and lick and kiss her inner thighs. Let the warmth of your breath reach her vagina as you lick the inner thighs. Pussy eating experts will not recommend you going too far away from the thighs as it kills the sensation.

3. Eat It Out

If you have followed the steps given above properly, she is dying to feel you on her vagina at this point. She might even try to take her panties off on her own, but you are not going to let her do it. You want to take her panties off with your two hands. While pulling the panties off, you want your fingers to gently rub down her thighs and legs.

Now that the field is open for you, it is time for you to try some different techniques. Here are five of the best techniques to get the best reaction from her and to make her the happiest woman on earth.

a) The Flat Tongue

This one is one of the best techniques to get that pussy wet and flooding with fluids. If you do it right, she will never look for another man to lick her pussy. As the name of this technique suggests, you have to keep your tongue flat while doing this technique.

• How to Do It

Stick your tongue out of your mouth like a puppy. You don’t want your tongue to be stiff in any region. You have to keep it flat and relaxed – that’s the key to making this technique work. Once you have your tongue in the relaxed position, you want to place it exactly on the vaginal hole. Yes, you are going to start from the bottom of the vulva opening. You now have to move up gently until your tongue licks the clitoris. The whole idea is to keep your tongue relaxed as it travels from the vagina to the clitoral hood. In a nutshell, your tongue is doing nothing other than hanging out. It is your head which will be doing the movement in the upward direction.

b) The O-shaped Lips

Once again, this particular technique has been named based on how you will be using your mouth while performing it. In this technique, you will not be using your tongue. Instead, you will make the O shape with your lips. Keep your lips relaxed as you will naturally have the tendency of making your lips stiff when you make the O shape.

• How to Do It

Place your O shaped lips exactly on her clitoris. You are now cupping the clitoris with your lips while it is inside your mouth. Start sucking on the clitoris gently and a bit intensely if your girl likes it. The way you suck the clitoris can change here. You can keep sucking it with constant pressure and release only when you need rest. Alternatively, you can continue with cycle of sucking and relaxing. Think of a song while performing the latter technique rhythmically. The more constant your rhythm is the more pleasant you will make it for your partner.

c) The Best Combo

While you can create many combinations of a variety of pussy eating techniques, this particular technique will still remain the best combo. It is called the best combo because it utilizes two of the best techniques I just mentioned above i.e. the flat tongue and o-shaped lips.

• How to Do It

Stick your tongue out flatly and get it as relaxed as possible. Put the soft and relaxed tongue on her vagina and move your head upward. You are basically performing the flat tongue technique here. Once you reach her clitoris, you will transition into the O-shaped lips technique. As soon as you reach her clitoris, make an O with your lips and suck the clitoris inside and keep a constant suction. Release slowly and repeat the process with the flat tongue technique. You might struggle with perfection in the beginning but you will soon know how fast you have to move and what the duration of your suctions should be.

d) Suction and Fingering

This is the technique where you will have to bring your hands into play. The suction and fingering pussy licking technique is a combination of the O-shaped lips and fingers. It will require some adjustment from you to perform properly. Furthermore, it will also need some time for you to perfect this one.

• How to Do It

The first step starts with the O shaped lips technique wherein you will make an O shape with your lips and start sucking on her clitoris. While sucking her clitoris, move your finger into her vagina. You want to feel the ceiling of her vagina and find the G-spot. It is best that you use your middle finger because of its size and strength. Keep the rubbing gently. You don’t want to rub to hard because it can be painful too. Once again, you will have to consistently stick to a rhythm while sucking and fingering to get the best result.

e) Suction and Two Way Fingering

This is one of the most difficult techniques for you to pull off successfully. This is because you will be really busy when performing it and any inconsistencies can cause displeasure to your partner. It is best that you try this technique when you have mastered the basic ones. In this technique, you will be stimulating the clitoris, vagina, and anus of your partner. Be sure to ask her if she likes anal penetration before performing this technique.

• How to Do It

Perform the O shaped lips technique on her clitoris the way you like i.e. sucking constantly or sucking in rhythms. Insert the middle finger of your one hand in her vagina. Start rubbing the G-spot inside her vagina. At the same time, you will use your other free hand and insert one of its fingers inside her anus. You have to be very focused while performing this two-way penetration because any distraction can cause you to hurt her. Make sure you have cut your nails before inserting your fingers in her pussy and anus.

Answering the Important Pussy Licking Questions

Are there any particular tips to master the suction and two-way fingering technique?

You will learn it as you perform it. The only thing you want to avoid doing is putting the finger you have in her anus in her vagina. This can seriously infect her vagina and cause various vaginal diseases.

Can I insert my tongue in her vagina?

This can be about your personal preference. However, you get the best reactions when you insert your finger or tongue in her vagina.

What if she is not responding?

This is very normal. You don’t have to be disappointed if she does not respond. There can be hundreds of reasons for that. First, make sure that you have performed the foreplay properly. Secondly, ask her if she is physically okay. Thirdly, women have their sweet and sensitive spots. You can ask her which spot pleases her the most.

Do girls have refraction periods?

The answer is a most definite yes. When your girl has just had an orgasm, you have to give her a couple of minutes to come out of the refraction period. During this time, you can continue to kiss other parts of the body.

How do I know she likes it?

You have to constantly monitor her body language. Is she moaning? Is she spreading her legs for you? Is he letting you do all without resistance? Do you see jerks and jolts in her body? If you are still not sure, just ask her. Yes, asking her will help you a lot. Sometimes, you think you are making her reach her climax based on the noises she is making without realizing that she is moaning in pure pain.

Bottom Line

Licking pussy is not as straightforward as it might seem. Some people explain these things to you while sticking to their difficult jargons. I have tried my best to keep things as plain as possible for you to get a clear idea of what you have to do. The one thing you have to keep in mind to eat pussy like a pro is communication and cooperation. Sometimes, you have to get some help from her. Do not take it all upon yourself all the time. Just ask her to tell you where to lick, suck, and eat. Ask her to tell you when to put pressure and how much. Perhaps, let her grab your hair and steer your head in the right directions.

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