How to make a girl want you

Learning how to get girls to want you will absolutely transform your dating life in the following ways:

1. Women will easily fall in love with you
2. You will get laid (pretty much) on demand
3. You will feel incredible about yourself
4. You will be proud to be masculine

Although the following 5 techniques won’t teach you every little line you need to say, you will learn the core concepts of attraction which will make you irresistible to girls.

Spend time with girls

Let’s go through a couple reasons why spending time with girls makes you a more desirable man:

Reason number one: you get to learn about women

Most guys spend time around guys and don’t have female friends which means most guys don’t know much about female nature.

Most guys don’t know how girls react to boldness.

Most guys don’t know what gets girls excited.

Most guys don’t know what makes girls fall in love.

However, once you decide to spend time with girls (even just as friends) you’ll learn about their nature and what makes them sexually want a man.

Reason number two: you’ll make your girl jealous

Having girls around you will automatically make all the other girls see you as a high value alpha male that gets laid all the time.

(Even cute, innocent girls that haven’t even looked at you, will start talking to you!)

Reason number three: you’ll learn about teasing and flirting

By spending time with women, you’ll learn about how they tease and flirt, specifically:

1. How to deal with a girl teasing you
2. How a girl shows desire for a guy
3. How girls show disinterest
4. How girls flirt and what to do
5. When girls want you to be bold

So now that you understand why spending time with girls improves your dating skills, go out and make some female friends or better yet, ask some girls out!

Touch your girl

First off, before you even think of touching her, she needs to be initially attracted to you!

For example, when you approach a girl on the street, don’t immediately go for the pat on the back, handshake or hug.

Instead, continue the conversation and when you see signs that she likes you go in for the seductive touch.

OK, but where should you touch her?

Well assuming that you’ve just met the girl and you don’t know her that well, here’s where you should touch her:

1. Hand
2. Wrist/ arm
3. Hair
4. Shoulders
5. Waist

However, once you’ve been on a couple dates and/or she’s your girlfriend, you can reach into other places:

1. Rub her inner thighs
2. Massage her feet/ back
3. Caress her cheek
4. Play with her hair
5. Caress her neck

Now that you know what to do, let’s talk about why touching girls (correctly!) is sexy:

Firstly, it shows boldness which is the one quality that makes girls wet.

But more importantly, touching a girl creates a special connection that words could never hope to achieve because you are literally touching her!

So as long as you follow these rules, go for it and watch how girls become addicted to you!

Use “The Feminine Mirroring Technique”

The Feminine Mirroring Technique is a powerful concept and here’s how it works:

Girls are attracted to masculine men, however, a purely masculine man can be too bold, insensitive and intense.

This is why you want the perfect mix: be a masculine guy with some feminine traits, for example:

1. Dance (especially salsa)
2. Put on cologne
3. Pay close attention to the clothing you wear
4. Keep your teeth white and smile
5. Show empathy
6. Show emotion and vulnerability (at times!)
7. Act in graceful and polite manner

Showing some femininity allows women to lower their guard around you and connect with you on a much deeper level.

Give her creative compliments

Having a bunch of female friends is great, however that’s not what this article is about.

This article is about making your girl want you sexually so that she wants to kiss, hug and sleep with you!

That’s why you must avoid the friend zone at all costs, but how? Show desire.

What do I mean by show desire?

When you first approach a girl (whether you’re at school, work or at college) give her a sexy compliment, for example:

1. Sorry, I just needed to approach you… I have a weakness for red dresses, what’s your name?
2. I must be the 10th guy to tell you this today, but your long, red hair is so damn sexy!
3. You have magnificent eyes… they’re almost hypnotic

At this point, she knows that you want her and if she wants you back then great.

If she rejects you, that’s fine too, because at least you’re not in the friend zone and you can approach other girls.

Look good

I know that some PUA’s will tell you that confidence is all that you need and that looks don’t matter at all, but I disagree.

I think (and I believe that you’ll agree with me) that looks play a big role in attraction.

But what if you don’t look good? What if you weren’t born looking like Jamie Dornan?

There are many things you can do:

1. Work out! (Getting ripped can transform any decent looking guy into a sexy looking guy)
2. Get a good haircut
3. Grow a beard
4. Put on some respectable clothing (keep your shoes clean!)
5. Brush your teeth (green teeth are not attractive)

Even if you try just a couple of these, you’ll be looking waaay better than 90% of guys!

Conclusion

You might be asking yourself: well, how do I apply these techniques? How can I take action?

Easy! Do what we mentioned in step one: spend time with girls.

At first, don’t worry about getting laid or kissing, just start by making female friends.

Once you have female friends you can start applying the techniques we talked about: touching, the feminine mirroring technique and giving creative compliments.